NEI for family planning
The longing is there — the spark in your heart when you imagine becoming a parent.
A deep desire to welcome a child and begin or grow your family, whatever that may look like for you.
Whether you are trying to conceive with a partner, pursuing donor conception, considering solo parenthood, or following another path to parenthood, this journey can bring both hope and vulnerability.
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But what if conception is not happening as easily as you hoped?
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What if the journey is taking longer than expected?
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What if you are trying to conceive again after a miscarriage or pregnancy loss?
NEI offers gentle support to help identify and release unresolved emotions, stress, and subconscious patterns that may be affecting your wellbeing and your journey to parenthood.
In my own journey toward motherhood, NEI brought me profound clarity and a meaningful sense of connection with my future child.
Whether you are preparing to conceive, processing loss, or seeking support during pregnancy and postpartum, NEI provides a safe and compassionate space to help you move forward with greater trust, balance, and connection.

NEI can be used for:
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Questions about whether and how you want to become a parent
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Exploring different paths to parenthood, including solo parenthood and donor conception
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Conscious conception and emotional preparation for pregnancy
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Healing inherited family patterns and generational trauma
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Connecting with the energy or spirit of your future child
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Difficulty conceiving or maintaining a pregnancy
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Fertility challenges
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Miscarriage, pregnancy loss, or premature birth
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Pregnancy emotional support and regulation
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Postpartum emotional care and integration
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Rebuilding trust in your body
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Hormonal imbalances
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Stress and anxiety
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Resolving emotional blocks
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Birth trauma

NEI coaching for family planning
NEI is based on the understanding that conception involves alignment between the biological and relational factors involved in creating a child, as well as the emerging life force of the child itself.
If conception is not occurring easily, there may be emotional stress, subconscious patterns, or imbalances present within one or more aspects of this process.
Together, we explore where these patterns may be held and what might be influencing the journey towards conception or growing your family.
By gently identifying and releasing underlying emotions, stress responses, and limiting beliefs held within the body and subconscious, the system can move back toward balance and coherence. This may support greater clarity, emotional wellbeing, and a renewed sense of trust in your body and your path to parenthood.
The intention is to help you reconnect with confidence, strength, and hope, while supporting a more aligned and supported pathway into parenthood in whatever form that takes for you.
Why NEI coaching for family planning?
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NEI can help resolve unprocessed emotions or blockages and reduce the stress surrounding becoming pregnant.
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NEI helps to process sadness, anger or insecurities that have arisen due to your unfulfilled desire to have children or miscarriage(s).
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Sometimes your own birth trauma or limiting thoughts surrounding becoming a parent play a role in conception, pregnancy or carrying till full term.
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NEI can easily be combined and works complimentary with other fertility treatments such as IUI, IVF or ICSI.
NEI helps to detect, process and release these obstacles from your system.


During my NEI consultations I may combine methods such as family constellation and systemic work.
We also may make contact with your unborn child, if the child is open to this and needs support or wants to share a message with you. This is a very special experience and continues to touch me deeply in my work.
I am always guided by my intuition and sensitivity, which means that I am deeply attuned to you and your needs and can quickly get to the core.
Thomas
“We are incredibly grateful and happy that you have helped us so much. Not only with making contact with our 'spirit baby', but also with resolving our blocks so we could move forward. You truly took the time and care for us and guided us with the same dedication throughout the entire process. Very satisfied. Thank-you Nicola!"
Sandra
"I experience Nicola as a warm and loving woman, who supported me in my process with attention and clarity. The fertility consultations with her helped me gain clarity about my path and the choices I needed to make. They also brought me into contact with the energy of my future child, which was very moving and deeply valuable! Thank you, dear Nicola."
Caroline
"Nicola has the gift of using her intuition flawlessly. She put me at ease, was compassionate, careful in the questions she asked, and was able to clearly sense and empathise. I am grateful to her for the beautiful online NEI coaching sessions."

Practical information
NEI Consultations (Online)
Intake with first NEI consultation 90 mins: NZ$180
Follow-up consultations from 60 mins: NZ$140
Book a package and receive 15% off.
The package includes:
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One initial consultation (90 minutes)
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Two follow-up consultations (60 minutes each)
Package price: NZ$390
Regular price: NZ$460
You save: NZ$70
Cancellation policy
If you need to cancel or reschedule your appointment due to illness or unforeseen circumstances, no fee will be charged if you provide at least 48 hours’ notice.
Cancellations made within 24–48 hours of the appointment time will incur a 50% cancellation fee.
Cancellations made within 24 hours of the appointment time, or non-attendance (no-show), will be charged at 100% of the session fee.
Please make any changes or cancellations directly via phone call, text message, or messaging app. Email is not checked regularly and may not be received in time.
